Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He found that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a walnut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, a woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. There are still no answers to some questions: is it present in every woman, and if so, can anyone get an orgasm from her stimulation?
How to start looking for the G-spot
Your partner can look for the G-spot, or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, apply a special lubricant on them in advance. After inserting the fingers into the vagina, you need to bend them up to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert lubricated fingers into the vagina, with the other hand lightly press on the pubis, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for acuity. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally bent slightly upward, then you will have more poses that promote stimulation, even the classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective position is for the woman on top and the partners to be face to face.
What is a jet orgasm
When stimulating the G-spot, a girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific fluid is released from the girl's vagina. To obtain just such an orgasm, the partner must insert lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, this must be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax with a massage using massage oil. The girl needs to lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a jet orgasm, there is a desire to urinate, but this feeling quickly passes and the desired pleasure comes. Still, it is recommended for your confidence to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any kind of orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls achieve results only after 2 weeks of training. You just need to learn to relax and fully trust your partner.
Where is the G-spot in women, and how to find it? These intriguing questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to get indelible and incomparable sensations that the stimulation of this zone causes. Men want to please their partners and at the same time increase their self-esteem as a talented and experienced lover. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the range of location of the point is 1-10 cm. In addition, it is far from always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is found on the right or left side.
Finding the G point is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. Most importantly, do not forget that in a calm state, the mysterious point is hardly noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitation, it swells, doubles in size and becomes well palpable. The point or rather zone has a slightly rough surface and is somewhat reminiscent of goosebumps or walnut peel, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina.
So, let's start searching for the magic point:
- First of all, make every effort to cause strong excitement in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before its onset or immediately after it, the point is probed best.
- The most convenient for searching is the position in which the partner lies on her back, and her legs are widely spaced. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area that is located under the pubic bone itself. Remember at the same time that digital statistics on the location of the G-spot is not an axiom, and for different women the cherished zone may not be in exactly the same places.
- In almost all the fair sex, this section of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, in order to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite strongly and actively on the area under study. Ask the woman to suggest in which direction you should move.
- If during your search for a partner you feel the urge to urinate, most likely you are on the right track. When you press the G-spot, this reaction, along with a feeling of discomfort, appears in many women. Don't worry, these types of sensations disappear pretty quickly and are replaced by a feeling of growing excitement.
- The G-spot resembles a small hard lump, no larger than a pea. Try to grab it with two fingers. Then start rhythmically squeezing and unclenching the lump, pressing and releasing it, while trying to act powerfully and at the same time delicately in order to avoid injury to the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone around is talking about the G-spot, but few people are talking about other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the miraculous properties of a special point G on a woman’s body, but not many people understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few people know about the existence of at least 3 more special points, the stimulation of which will give a woman especially pleasant sensations. These same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones on a woman's body are, where they are, how to stimulate them, and what effect a woman will get from stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina. It is a hypersensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, containing 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, unlike other areas containing no more than 30 nerve endings. That is, the stimulation of this zone will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be stimulated easily with a finger or a small vibrator that has the appropriate purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women
Point A
Where is the woman's erogenous zone called point A? You can find this intimate point on the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like G, a supersensitive area 2 to 4 cm in size. With strong arousal, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly, and the male penis canpenetrate her neck by almost 3 centimeters. In addition, this zone does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which makes it possible to prolong the pleasure.
K-point
The K-spot is located on the back wall of the vagina, and stimulation of this point is carried out during anal sex, but provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thickened. Stimulation of this zone, unlike the previous two zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences, love and affection for a partner, but delivers a particularly sharp and vivid orgasm.
U point
What other erogenous zones do women have? Point U is a soft erectile tissue, also permeated with nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissues. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U-spot, there is a strong sexual desire and a desire to urinate at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U point, but also on Skene's glands, the so-called "prostate gland" of a woman, located throughout the spongy body of the urethra. These zones are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or at the neck itself. Their location is an important factor for the sensitivity of the U-spot. During normal sex, the U-spot is not affected, so it must be stimulated separately, with circular movements of the finger. Simultaneous stimulation of the G and U points in women sometimes leads to the so-called "squirt" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated on it. In fact, in the body of any man there is another powerful sexual tool that takes an active part in every sexual intercourse. This refers to the prostate gland or, in other words, the prostate.
In a fit of passion, few people remember the presence of a prostate. And completely in vain. She, like the main male sexual organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists put it on a par with the female G-spot, because a competent effect on the prostate is accompanied by an unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious zone in the body of a man? >
- Before you start looking for the treasured point in the body of your partner, ask him to go through a little preparation. A man should ideally cleanse the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetically pleasing.
- Do your best to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner uncertainty will lead to the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experiment. Find out from the man if he really wants to participate in this. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Trim your nails without fail. If you have extended nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this is fraught with the appearance of microtrauma in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before, but also after searching and finding the treasured point. Do not touch the hand that was used in the search to the male genital organ or to your genitals, and even better, use disposable gloves. Thus, you will protect yourself from a variety of microorganisms from the partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start searching for the prostate at the beginning of sexual intercourse. It is better to move it to the moment when you feel the imminent onset of the climax. Otherwise, you can simply destroy your partner's sexual mood and even make him uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from the head and smoothly moving to the stomach and back. Pay special attention to the buttocks. Massage your partner with gentle and gentle movements.
- Let your man lie on his back. At this time, you will settle down between his legs and very delicately and carefully insert your finger into his anus, while not forgetting to use vaseline oil or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel on the front wall of the intestine from the side of the abdomen a bulge the size of a chestnut.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably the right one, and press your knees tightly to your stomach. This position will not only make it easier for you, but also allow a man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles relax to the maximum.
A full sexual life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to receive absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
Stimulation of the erogenous zones allows both the man and his partner to achieve orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - the ji point, they started talking back in the middle of the last century. There is still no unanimous opinion about where the g-spot is. Women usually do not have problems with determining its coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - from 3 to 5 cm from the entrance. What the erogenous epicenter itself looks like can be seen on a special video. There are also photos in which a special place looks like a bean of small size.
To recognize the ji point, it is not necessary to study the video. This place is quite palpable with tactile inspection. If this area is stimulated, then there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding an erogenous point is not difficult at all, for this you need to feel the anterior wall of the vagina. This area will be more rough and rough, which is not typical for the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the g-spot is when a woman is in a state of sexual arousal. This zone is less sensitive for any girl, so it needs to be additionally and actively stimulated. In order to master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
When sexual intercourse occurs, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a place. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, in order to detect the presence of the ji microzone, one of the optimal postures should be chosen.
These include the following provisions:
- partner is behind;
- the girl takes the pose of a rider and leans back strongly.
Even a close study of a video or photo is not always helpful in finding the answer, how to find the ji point? This does not mean that your sex life will be less impressive.
Point ji is really a unique place. However, for most women, emotional rather than physiological sensations from sex prevail. Some girls note that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
The older women are, the less significant is the use of the g factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, the task of finding a supererogenous point is relevant only for those women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of the ji point of a partner?
If the problem of the location of the ji area in women can be solved using a tactile method, then the question of how to find the g point of a partner is not at all difficult.
Finding such a place in the male half is even easier, you don’t even need a training video. An analogue of the ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (this can be seen on the video). To get to the "point" g of a man, you must use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: a finger is gently inserted into the anus and a slight bulge is found on the side of the abdomen. This will be zone g. It is located somewhere four to five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If she managed to find the location of the g zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for petting. All these actions must be performed very delicately.
If the partners decide to find a unique zone g, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the dedicated video above.
With mutual consent, try to find the treasured object called "g-spot" through tactile research. For some couples, the magical g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more vibrant.
Exploring each other's bodies, lovers can achieve true pleasure!